Your Clitoris and You! P-S-A

Is the shape of your clitoris breeding insecurities?

Does the size of your clitoris have you worried that maybe you're not measuring up?

Have no doubt--- many, many women suffer the same clitoral apprehension. You don't have to be a slave to the demanding standards of the adult entertainment industry any longer (unless you're into that kind of thing). And here's why...

It’s a strange and maybe personal topic no doubt. Do you (women who watch porn) ever sit around scrutinizing adult films and find yourself looking down thinking ‘um, my clitoris doesn’t look like that’?

After some rather extensive *ahem* research, I discovered that I’m not the only one who thinks about those things while watching porn. I know men compare themselves and have ego issues about the size of their ‘copulation tool’. I think women often wonder about the shape and size of their girly parts too. Maybe not as often, or to the same degree, but it happens.

Just like a penis, every vagina is unique. It does seem though, that all of those women (most adult industry actresses) have some sort of manufactured look to their clitoris. In reading 'The Self Made Man' - which by the way is still excellent so far - the author Norah, as Ned, is in a strip club, and making observations about strippers and their vaginae. She takes note that all of these women have the same doll-like quality, surreal vaginae even.

All together it's been stirring my clitoral insecurities. Other women and I have discussed these 'industry boxes', in comparison with our own packaging. Most of the time I get the same sort of response: 'Yeah, hey why is that? Mine doesn't look anything like that!' Or they assume that it is a well 'used' look.

I don't think it's a well 'used' look, at least not anymore. Now I just think that we're all like special snowflakes and you should know that yours is wonderful too. If you still have doubts, I'm sure I can find someone for you to send a picture to, in order to get that unbiased opinion you crave.